NYS Department of Health Complaints Against Filthpot Woodhull Hospital

Last week I formally filed complaints against Williamsburg. Brooklyn filthpot Woodhull Hospital, a member of the New York Health & Hospitals Corportation for among many reasons:

1. Failing to report to authorities the presenting of a patient in acute distress with toxic levels of medication found in her blood (my mother) for which I have had to notify and alert the state to such condition to the New York State Office of the Aging Elder Abuse Unit

2. On June 12, 2017 blood soiled gauge pads, open sharps and multiple breathing apartuses found touching the floor for which this facility was putting on my mother’s face not even a week after she tested positive for MRSA.

3. Since June 14, 2017 I have been refused visitation and information on my mother who is still hospitalized at this facility with the simple reasoning of “you know what you did”.  The facilities employee by the name of Karen Moore appears to walk around changing a sheet of paper notating such restriction but refusing to provide a copy of any formal restriction despite my formal request for such in writing to Hospital administration and Associate Director of Patient Relations Anthony DeJesus so I may proceed with filing legal action against the medical facility.

Thus now we turn to the New York State Department of Health to respond to such unlawful acts of the filthpot medical facility known as Woodhull Hospital 

Madame Marie

I’ve never really been a superticous person; ambivalent to the magical, mystical realm of psychics, and tarot card readers, fortune tellers et al.

Today my cousin Michelle took me to have my palm read and tarot cards read while we were down in Asbury Park soaking up some sun…  I’d have to say an experience it was… walked out with tissues in hand and tears rolling down the sides of my face but my heart a bit lighter in what was said.

She seemed to know or pick up on my mom, my own health issues, thoughts of recent of a change/move I’ve been contemplating, and my trials and tribulations of the last few years.  It also brought up a lot of which as of late I’ve had self-doubt or questioned for myself which she had answers for without even bringing them up, this all led me to think about the following which today kinda reinforced for me.

A good friend I consider very dear not too long ago, (in trying to reassure me in my one of what seems to be many moments of doubt lately) offered me advice of “go with what you know”.  In a midst of the craziness I term “my reality”, I suppose I’ve lost some sight of “going with what I know.” 

When I stop and pause for a bit, and go with what I know, there is nothing real for me to fear but fear itself. There are (as Madam Marie explained) many angels (including my mom) around me, helping for what I have been struggling through is a path that right now has to be what it is, until “this one last shoe drops” (as she put it). All for which is for my safety and the love which does exist around me near and afar.

Apparently there is still pieces to this puzzle of “my reality” that for now are sworn to secrecy which though I might have sensed or picked up on, are what they are on purpose again for my own good and not for me to doubt negatively which I may have recently or unfairly done of late. 

I also guess that this entire blog entry is probably something I will be just about the only person who can look back and understand / comprehend rationally what is being said here but I suppose that’s ok to, as one day in time when I should look back to re-read these perhaps it will only reinforce for me my strength, perseverance, endurance, love, compassion and faith showing where I was and how far I come, and where I will go.

An Open Response to Such Letters and Rhetoric

Over the course of the past few days I’ve sat down to really read through these hundreds of pages of rhetoric filled with misguided beliefs and accusations about homosexuals, about a woman’s own son who is one of the finest and strongest men I’ve met in my life who gets up with a smile on his face every morning that lights up a room when in the background such disgust is wrongly being drilled into his head…

So I will say this about the churches beliefs, such attempts at punishing “us sinners” and breaking our spirits which is just as “g-d” filled even more with love and compassion then that of your g-dly beliefs:

1.  Absence makes the heart grow even fonder.

2.  I love my husband even more today then I did six years ago when he courageously chose love over your hate

3. Your son has not hidden his beliefs or faith, and in fact in support of that which means so much to him, I worked hard to try to create memorable and meaningful Christmases, proudly introduced and sat next to “my husband” having tea at your sacred garden tomb

4. To further show such support in loving a gay Christian man, I walked into Church on Sundays by my husbands side to support him in his simple and important desire to be accepted as a Gay Christian Man and I would do it again tomorrow if he asked!

So in the darkness for which such hatred permeates by ink on a page, more admiration and love flourishes for such love and strength is truly what unconditional love is!!!

And my answer would still be “Yes, I Do” 

What is approaching what would have been our 6 year anniversary more and more of evident truths keep surfacing, but in retrospect of the past three years, the corruption, the disingenuous hate crime of the born again evangelicals behind what has occurred, ill will and deception by members of my own family that call themselves “siblings”, my answer would still be “yes” and “I do.”

In the last two weeks alone:

1.  The sitting matrimonial justice was removed from Suffolk county matrimonial cases after nearly three years infront of this judge that has cared about anything but facts, the truth or litigants before him.

2. My divorce attorney Natasha Meyers decides it’s time to release my file to me (after holding it hostage for three years) with the caveat of signing a 4 page release of claim promising to never sue her for anything from the beginning of time to the end of time 

3. Our home has been listed for sale not withstanding the fact that I haven’t seen the inside of which since December 11, 2014 due to a lying scumbag attorney and dishonest judge

All facts and documents pointing to my husband and I both dragged through a court system being divorced by Justice David Reilly, Louis Simonetti, the State of New York, the Church, everyone but divorcing each other.

My husband and I both agreed and executed stipulations agreeing to live together yet ignored by the attorney and judge instead I was ejected by a non-appeable directive off the bench and given 48 hours to leave my own home like a criminal.

I have taken several days to read nearly hundred plus letters written by my mother in law containing threats,  messages of hatred and disdain  for homosexuals written to my husband over the course of twenty plus years and read through some of his own research over the years just trying to find acceptance and love in being Christian in gay. 

Until now I hadn’t ever really read these letters and honestly I failed to live up to being a proud and good husband in so far as the fact my husband put on a tuxedo, walked down and aisle to marry me and called me his husband is one of the most courageous acts anyone has done for me with what he was up against and I should have been prouder and understood better what he was actually up against.

So while these last three years have been lonely, isolating, discouraging and painful my answer to whether I would have married my husband and do it all over again would still be “yes, I do promise to love you like I’d never live again with everything I am.”

In all routed evil, love  honesty and true genuiness will always triumph and evil will always get whats coming

 All battles of good over evil, love over hate will always win because that is what is meant in name or belief in one’s G-D.

i am standingg outside Woodhull Hospital since 5:30am beig refused access to my mother while evil doers graple at straws to atempt to cover up and convince themselves of good in what are their very own evil injustices that include as is well documented ans evidenced by print on paper, so allow me this opportunity to say Thank you for what you have done for me and that is to realize and hope my husband deep down knows the truly loving, devoted and honest man my mother raised and always taught me to be for which i know i made her proud and that i failed to live up to as a husband in my own time of self-doubt and fear but for which i know i made my mother proud of because she even let me know when i was being in her eyes “too diffilcult of a spouse”

but thank you for tonight, as tonight is when im informed by a post on facebook that my mother is having surgery this morning and upon immediately gettig to the hospital at 5am, im refushed access to Woodhull Hospital by barely sober Hospital “Cops” holding a washed out color “mugshot of me, someone who’s never been arressted or charged with a crime to my knowledge and even refused a copy of it no less not even allowed to go be with mommy so our mother isnt alone as she goes into surgery after spending the past 30 days on life support…

well lets do some fact checking – last i checked:
1. Mommy is and was still awake, alert and oriented and NOT dead yet therefore you’ve taken away her voice, her independence, her rights and denied the woman the right to make known her own wishes including for her to make a choose if she wanted to see her son or not

2. under the care of you all, thats right Darlene AND Stanley Denker this same woman presented to Woodhull Hospital not breathing June 1 where you had her already dead impressig upon 911 that you had to start “CPR” on a woman whos heart was STILL beating June 1, 2017 but immediately presented having TOXIC levels of dixogin in her blood

3. unsolicited testiment of a third party stranger and your “fellow christian” who has never met mommy some three months ago, alleged that “all of my sibilings put my mother in the hospital” and “almost killed her” in an apparent pitiful attempt to “stop her” since she apprently found out of your very soon to be trials and tribulations to be held accountable for all because you have ugly insides filled with greed and hate for what is an evangelical christian hate crime very much under investigation committed against me AND my HUSBAND!

4. the same so-called twin sister calling the same idle threats for three years now in writing no less when other than being a  nyc board of education reject fired as an educator for grabbing a kid and inappropriate conduct in the classroom, you now have a stay away order of protection issued against you hanging over your head by the Kings County Family Court AND an open NYPD Domestic Incident Report you are the named suspect and subject of a NYS Department of Aging Elder Abuse Investigation.

5. then theres oddly enough dad who can not decide from one day to the next which tale to carry on a prticular day 1) a phony tale that i have psychological problems (when if you truly were genuinely interested in anyone else but yourself you would know im walking around with a carotid dissection and 2 cerebral annureysms not to mention my spine being all metal from L3 into my hips but thats ok day, im a big boy i still wake up in the morning) or your tale # 2) your wife of 49years who has been fighting and struggling exhauvstively for a month now to stay allive is senile after having spent 94 days in a nursing facility because the real real was it was the only place she felt absolutely safe and medicaly held for no other reason but she bindged on cookies and cake all night.  what you witnessed was a woman depressed by what became known to her all on her own for which she deserved much better after 49 years! 

6. now lets look at last august where i apparently was missing for two days held at Woodhull Hospital under the presumed name Ryan Young but miraculously “Stanley Denker” shows up and knew where i was. reality check that actually afforded me the opportunity to be briefed and i was informed as to all of my “siblings involvement” much to my surprise not your perceived reverse accussing me aimlessly of looking to lay blame

Id say theres definitely some shit going on and i can now say i now know what  mother meant each and everytime these past months she has made the statement to me “you do what you have to do” over and over.  i also now more than ever can absolutely thank you all of validating to me that i am a son that made my mother proud and kept to the virtues shes instilled in me to always be honest, hardworking and always tell the truth, something not one of you even try to come close to being and that mommy deserved for the sacrafice and effort she tried to give thebest she was capable of giving us
BUT HERE IS WHAT YOUVE ALL REALLY DONE and truly is a cherished gift for me, youve helped teach me the most valuable lesson of my life that ive spent the past 24 waking hours realizing and coming up to speed on after my former attorney turned over court 4 boxes of “divorce court files” which ive never ever bestowed my eyes onto in three years while begging me to sign a 3-page release of liability for any and all claims against her since there was and is a shakedown a coming and started yeaterdat…!!! those lessons are as follows:  
1. Ive never been more wrong in my life than i have been in the past three years and that the most courageous and genuine,  people i have ever known or have been blessed to be loved by in my life is my mother and my husband who against odds he shielded me from never having even known, held his head up high and walked down and aisle and married me calling me his husband while i jetsetted around the world building a career wanting to make him proud when i was only failing as a husband because i never realized how proud i should have been of him.  with what you all personify as christian righteousness, my husband has spent a lifetime of abuse and rejection when all he deserved and yearned for was loce and acceptance and validation of the good man he is, yet rejected and chastised he held his head high and continued to rise to the occassion amd be the good man he is and show how  radically sick, misguided and roothless some of the members of your “evangelical church” that all 6 of my siblings partake “in secrecy”  and for whom ruthless seek out to destory an innocent mans life whos only crime was not giving his husband the opportunity to speak and be heard in a time of fear and hurt and confusion for me. but for which you all jumped onto the gravy train seeking to cash in on!!
Well you are all also very right about this… there is a g-d and he will being watching over my mother this mornig and he will ensure my mother has the peace, rest and love and comfort she so desperately deserves in this existence and to what ever end that is his plan on the other side of today” you my dear sibligs, each and everyone of you in mommy’s own words g-d will give onto you an exact blessing of you and may that be inscribed in his book for what due you in this life.

and just before you make your prayer to JC this morning, here’s my contribution as you term “the family aggravation”… remember this… 

the last words i had the gift of hearing out of mommy’s mouth when i saw her last week and  i told her i loved was to get a kiss and words mommy never said  they “i love you” and THANK YOU” two words tou never heard mommu say! 

after spending 5 hours arguing for the unsanitary conditions and filthpot of a “private room” while you sat with you feet up on her bed and complained about having to list to a woman’s aganoy from vaccum straped seal tight to her face keeping her alive and spread disgusting allegations of your father “puttingg the moves on you” a seeminngly dispicable reocurring allegation of the Applebaum / Denker female offspring.
So thank you for helping me to be even better and more of the son that mommy proud!

Have a blessed day!

When your mother’s response is eye opening…

On June 17, 2017, approximately 24 hours after being taken off a respirator and extubated, I informed my mother that upon her admission June 1, 2017 to Woodhall Hospital in Williamsburg Brooklyn she presented in acute distress, not breathing and with toxic levels of dixogin in her blood… 

A surprising reaction from her in response was 

I had a feeling

this is from a woman that like clockwork tested her blood sugar 4x a day and carried around incillin with cold packs when she traveled out of the house ; hence a woman who knew quite well how to take her medicine. 

Of particulr question is on this so called day of June 1, 2017 my sister strangely enough was home from work because she “wasn’t feeling well” and apparently began CPR on my mom despite her heart still beating…?!?

Appropriately enough Office of the New York State Department of the Aging is now investigating potentional Elder Abuse.

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